Okay, First off I apologize for pretty much completely ignoring blogger for almost a month...and btw, I'm also having that weird glitch thing where Blogger logs me out every time I try to comment on someone's post...werid :/
Okay so, even though I haven't blogged about it (even though you all know about it LOL)...this is an issue I've been kind of..."struggling" with for a while now I guess...the only reason I'm choosing to write about it is because maybe you guys have suggestion or solutions for me? Because I could really use some help...
So...it's a little after 4:30 p.m. I'm sitting in my Grandparent's apartment alone waiting for John to be able to come out so we can spend time together...The only problem? I've been waiting since 1:30. And this isn't the first time...the day of SAT's I sat in the high school parking lot for 2 hours before he was finally allowed out...And to be honest, I really want to say "I don't mind...I'll wait forever!" But I'm only human...and I'm really tired of sitting around for hours and hours without a clue of what's going on...and now, when he finally is able to come out...what time will he have to be home 6? 7? we won't even be able to do anything.
And it's really not his fault...I can't be mad at him...but I don't want to say "Um...hey...I dunno how to say this but sitting around for three and a half hours waiting every weekend kind of sucks."
I just don't know what to do...obviously his mom isn't going to change any time soon...but I'm getting really tired of just sitting here waiting all day...it...well it really sucks. I don't know what to do...is there anything I can do? If you guys have any idea how we can fix this, please tell me, because I don't have a clue :(
how about asking him to come to your house? that way, you won't have to wait outside doing nothing and you guys can spend time together as well?
ReplyDeleteYou've already put so much effort into this relationship and now it's time for him to step up his game and stand up to his mother. He's in highschool he needs to start taking charge of his life. His mother needs to learn that she can't baby him for the rest of his life. Is he going to have to ask her permission to leave the house on his wedding day?
ReplyDeleteI think you should talk to him about this and be like "hey I've already done my part in this relationship now you should do yours". You need to talk to him and he needs to talk to his mother
Oh Joe...he can't come over because then he would have to tell him mom where he was going since my house is in River Vale...plus I don't want my parents around LOL XD
ReplyDeleteLily....yeah you're right...I just don't know how to say it :/